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Practical rules I try to follow.
Not rigid laws, but reminders to save energy, stay sharp, and keep moving.
Productivity
- If a task can be done in 2 minutes or less, do it immediately.
- If you’ll only do it once, do it manually; if it repeats, automate.
- Don’t keep Slack/Outlook always on — batch notifications every hour; if it’s urgent, you’ll get paged.
- Block focus time in calendar, even if it’s your personal email calendar.
- Not every meeting deserves you. Attend only if you’ll gain or contribute.
- Default to asynchronous updates (docs, notes, recordings) over live meetings.
- Capture open loops (ideas, tasks, errands) into one trusted system (not your head).
- When you feel unfocused (e.g. early morning), reset your state: stand up, take a 5-minute walk, breathe, then plan your top 3 priorities for the day.
Focus & Energy
- Guard the first 2 hours after lunch — no email, no chat, just deep work.
- Use a single screen mode when solving problems to reduce context-switching.
- Take 5-minute breaks every hour — stand, stretch, breathe.
- Sleep is a performance enhancer. Prioritize 7+ hours as non-negotiable.
- Limit caffeine after 2 PM. Tomorrow’s energy is part of today’s job.
- Stretch mid-day or when you are tired/sleepy.
- When things go wrong or out of your control, give yourself 5 minutes to release — complain, mourn, be angry if you need. After 5 minutes, take a breath and remind yourself: “I can’t change it. Accept and move on.” (Talk Link)
Learning & Growth
- When you hit a bug, read the error fully before Googling.
- If you can’t solve it in 30 minutes, write down what you tried before asking for help.
- Build small “throwaway projects” to learn faster than tutorials.
- Share what you learn — writing forces clarity, and helps others.
- When advice conflicts, test both; keep what works for you.
Communication
- Default to clear, short messages. Respect people’s time.
- Always document decisions (meeting notes, PR comments, design docs).
- If it’s team knowledge, ask in public channels; if it’s personal, DM directly.
- If you disagree, start with: “Help me understand…” instead of “You’re wrong.”
- Praise in public, critique in private.
Creativity
- Save your best creative energy for mornings or when you feel most alert.
- Don’t judge ideas during brainstorming — separate creation and editing.
- Go analog sometimes: sketch on paper to unlock new connections.
- Collect sparks: screenshots, quotes, code snippets — your own swipe file.
- Walks and showers are creative work. Treat them as part of the process.
Career & Perspective
- Companies are not families — they are teams with goals. Don’t confuse the two.
- Always know: what am I learning here, and how does it grow me?
- Seek overlap between your growth and company goals. That’s win-win.
- Don’t tie identity only to your job. Side projects and hobbies keep perspective.
- When in doubt, optimize for skills, people, and reputation over short-term comfort.